Firstly, You are comfortable with your lover and he/she gives an understanding to your decision. This shows your lover respects you so much. A?thousand?readers?make?a?thousand?Hamlets. It is common that everyone has different thoughts to one thing. When we are strangers, we don’t really care what each other think. When we are couples, we should respect others. My friend, Sunny shared her love story with me. She told me she found her boyfriend in a hookup app and after they had a dating, they decided to become couples. Sunny was beautiful and rich with a good job while her boyfriend was not very excellent or handsome. Her friends didn’t think this relationship would last for a long time. Some friend even to bet if their relationship could last for three months. To our surprise, after one year, they got married. We asked why Sunny chose to marry her boyfriend as we didn’t think he was outstanding.
She replied to us that her boyfriend would support her decisions and showed understandings. Her boyfriend never challenged her if he didn’t really agree with her thoughts. He would calm down and shares his idea with Sunny after listening to her thought. In the end , he would show he can understand the reason why she made her decision and he would support her if she insisted on it as they were couples. Someone who can understand you and really listen to your advice is really rare. Flirting is easy which understanding is difficult. We all feel happy about their marriage. By the way, she recommended us the best app to hookup and hope our singles can find the destiny.
Secondly, your family supports your love. We should know that marriage is an important thing for a whole family unlike hookups. You can have chatting and dating with a stranger while you should be very familiar with the person you will marry. Trust me that your parents have more experience and tips on marriage. They can see what is the best for you. We don’t mean you should follow every advice of theirs’ but you should take their tips into consideration if you want to get married. Three months ago, Ellen, my friend was so upset with her parents as her parents asked her to break up with her boyfriend and she did so. The reason of her mother is that her boyfriend only ordered his own dishes and doesn't care Sunny’s parents at all. Her mother said her boyfriend was not polite and considerate from this thing and her mother asked her to break up. Sunny was in great sorrow but she did. For the moment she said breakup, her boyfriend said something rude to her parents as well as her and he tried to slap her. She finally realized her parents’ decision was totally right as her boyfriend was impolite and violent. You can hook up or date with anyone without telling your parents but for marriage, hope you can listen to your parents and think twice.
Hope everyone can find the right person in our life.
